Today is Memorial Day. A day that most people think means BBQs and big get togethers and the beginning of summer.
But that is not the meaning of this day.
Memorial Day is a day to remember our fallen heroes. A day to remember that dad who will never see his little girl get married. A day to remember that cousin who will never get to meet the newest member of the family. A day to remember that wife who will never get to kiss her husband again. A day to remember that sister who will never get to tease her brother again. A day to remember that mom who will never get to hug her son again.
All gave some and some gave allAnd some stood through for the red, white and blueAnd some had to fallAnd if you ever think of meThink of all your liberties and recallSome gave all
I hate to admit it, but I used to kind of ignore military stuff. I felt like it didn't affect me. Yeah, my Dad, Gramps, and Uncle had all been in the military, but it was a long time ago. But then my big brother/best friend told me he was going to join the United States Marine Corps. And suddenly it was all so close to my heart.
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My brother Matthew and dad Eric at Matt's graduation from Officer Candidate School, Quantico VA. summer 2012. |
Now? I can't see a picture of a homecoming or hear a song related to the military without tearing up. Now it is personal. No longer is it someone else's brother. It is my brother.
So I would like to make a simple request of you today. Please take
a minute the whole day and remember
why we celebrate Memorial Day. Forget about the hot dogs and the sunscreen and remember the
wife who is without her husband today. Remember the
children who have to say goodbye.And make sure that you thank our service men, women and their families. If you don't see any today, make a phone call. Post on Facebook. Write about it on your blog. Do whatever you have to do to let those heroes know how much you appreciate their sacrifices.
Because while to you it may just be a casket with a flag draped over it, to the man holding the folded up flag it is his little boy.
The Sergeant hands him the flagAfter the prayerThe Honor Guard fires 21 rounds Up in the airThe sound of Taps brings a tear to all of usBut his dad will always see him as he was
A little boy in a uniformFive years old in the back yard Playing warDreaming of everything he could beIn this land of the freeJust like his old manDid back in VietnamHe was gonna be a hero for sureThat little boy in a uniform
To my father who served in the Navy, thank you. To my grandfather who served in the Army, thank you. To my brother who is joining the Marine Corps, thank you. To my uncle who served in the Navy, thank you. To Tom Mask, Gene Brazel, Derrick Staffenson, Mason Acheson and all the other military men and women out there, thank you from the bottom of my heart. You are the real superheroes.